Sunday, July 31, 2011


Wait! Before we begin, I'm a single male always down for anything (maybe not anything) so feel free to e-mail me I'm in So. California. But,this blog isn't about drinking at all sorta. I do um... partake once in a while and I've had some amazing (and some very opposite of amazing) times, but I rarely drink now. I do find that if you decide not to drink, and insist to not drink in certain situations, you're given that quick look-over . You're looked at with the question: what's wrong with you that you don't drink? Or worse you don't register to some people. Simply not there.Not as fun or interesting. The designated driver.This sorta thing happens all the time throughout the day, not just with drinking etiquette, I think, drinking just happens to be a funny one. So this blog,It's about anything that might seem interesting on any given day good or bad .
Hey fellas, My name is Ruben.Sometimes I get lonely and just wanna reach out and touch someone like a kid reaching to hug a puppy. Sometimes it gets much worse; I post. Mainly I'm talking to myself with well practiced exercises other times I'm not.  Welcome. Enjoy.

Friday, July 29, 2011

It's not so much about the drinking, always.


I don't really drink as much as I use to.I'm too old to pretend I'm too drunk to know better. I know better. That doesn't mean I won't allow you the chance to pretend that alcohol made me take off my clothes. If that makes you feel better, okay.I love a good time as much as the next guy.  You know every once in a while some of us just need an excuse.


Fuck Fear.
Make the most of life.
You only have this one.

Always be prepared for greatness, great things, cause you just never know what awaits. At any given time, just around the corner, you might trip over whom or whatever reason you've been put on this planet for. As hard as it seems sometimes, make sure to stay positive. Be brave and try not to worry. Don't worry about death or dying in some horrible freak accident. No one gets out alive. Someone's always dying. Good and bad things will always happen, always, it's our reaction to things that makes us who we are. And If you don't like who you've become, well today is as good as any day to change. Are you ready?
      Join me. Let's begin this journey with a happy and full heart ready for the greatest love affair, one that involves acceptance of an individual as who they are as well as what you'd like them to be. Accept yourself for the average wimpy child who cried too much or pee'd everywhere or talked funny and also for the good man you've become. Who will sacrifice convenience to make this a better place.
                                                           Thanks, Ruben. (Dude where's my clothes?)